How to Find the Right Wedding Photographer (And Why I Might Be Yours)

12 Jul

Alright, cards on the table: yes, this blog is partly here in the hope you’ll read it and decide I’m your guy. But here’s the thing – I’m not a salesman. The last thing I want is to twist your arm into handing over your hard-earned money only for you to end up regretting it.

I want to be at weddings with couples who are genuinely like-minded, who get what I’m about and feel excited to have me there capturing their day.

When I planned my own wedding back in October 2024, I spoke with 22 photographers in my area. I was looking for someone who would photograph the day as if it were their own – laid-back, relaxed, and fully aware that I didn’t want to be dragged off for hours of endless photoshoots.

If that’s what you want (big formal shoots, posing until your cheeks hurt), I’ll save you the time – I’m probably not the photographer for you.

But if you’re still here, nodding along, let’s talk about how you can figure out whether any photographer is the right fit.

Important Questions to Ask Your Wedding Photographer

Here are some of the most common questions couples ask – and exactly how I’d answer them if you were asking me:

1. What’s your photography style?
I’d call it natural, candid documentary photography. I’m there to tell the story of your day as it actually happens, not to manufacture moments that don’t feel like you. That said, when needed, I’ll step in to give a little direction (especially during group shots) – but you’ll never find me barking orders or killing the vibe.

2. How many photos will we get?
I don’t cap the number of photos. The more you do, the more I’ll shoot. You can expect hundreds of high-resolution images in your gallery – every genuine moment I can catch.

3. How long will it take to receive our photos?
I always send same-day sneak peeks so you’re not left wondering how things turned out. Your full gallery will be ready within four weeks.

4. Can we see full wedding galleries?
Absolutely. You shouldn’t just look at highlight reels – they only show the best 20 shots. I’ll happily share full wedding galleries so you can see exactly what a full day of coverage looks like.

5. Do you have backup equipment?
Yes. I shoot on dual cameras, with multiple lenses and memory cards, plus spares for everything. Your wedding photos are too important to leave to chance.

6. Will you travel to our venue?
If your wedding is within an hours of the Cotswolds, I’m there. If it’s further afield, let’s have a chat and work it out.

7. Will you help us feel comfortable?
This is honestly one of the things I hear most in reviews: that I’m relaxed, friendly, and make people feel at ease. I don’t expect you to know what to do in front of a camera – it’s my job to get you there gently, and to make sure you’re having a good time while we do it.

8. What’s your approach to the day itself?
I’m all in. You won’t catch me hiding in a dark corner, peeking through a lens. I’m part of the wedding, blending in, chatting to your guests, keeping the energy up when it matters. Because that’s what creates real moments and unforgettable photos.

So…Does This All Make Sense to You?

If you’ve read this far and you’re thinking, yep, that sounds like exactly what we’re after, then there’s a very good chance I’m the right photographer for you.

Here’s what I promise:

Only good times and good vibes.
I won’t be skulking around on the sidelines. I’ll be part of your day, making sure you and your guests feel comfortable and looked after.
I’ll help create the moments that turn into brilliant photos – the ones where everyone’s belly-laughing, dancing like maniacs, or wiping away a happy tear.

There are plenty of photographers who’ll just let the day roll on and snap whatever happens. And while that’s fine, I don’t believe that alone creates the kind of gallery you’ll look back on and say, wow – he is the best photographer ever!

All you need to do is read my Google reviews and see what real couples say about working with me.

If it feels like we’d be a good fit, let’s have a chat. No pressure, no awkward sales pitch – just a conversation about your plans and whether I’m the right person to capture them.